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writes:I have had a best friend since i was about 9,and we have been friends ever since,Im 16 now and we fell out about 2 months ago and haven't made up since. We were so close and although i have a lot of other amazing friends,i still can't help wanting to have her back in my life too. The thing is,we didn't actually fall out about anything in particular,she thought i went off a lot with other people,but i really tried to count her and in and include her,She said that she had to tip-toe round me and she was sick of felling like it. I think she has fell out with me for a long time now because she has made some other friends now,otherwise i think we would have made up a while ago.She said some really hurtfull stuff to me but last month i texted and told her we should put it behind us because we have been such close friends for so long.But she said that she wanted to talk about it at school,i was goign to go up to her but she was with all her friends.I wasnt prepared to go up to her and talk about it with everyone listening,So,we just left it at that,It isnt bugging me a lot,because as i said before,i have other bestfriends but i just feel like we ahve been friends for so long its a shame to just waste all those years.Any help?
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reader, brklynsis81  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 I think you have been making the right steps by reaching out to her. Keep trying. Alas, sometimes friendships do fade and it may just be that this friendship has run it's course. But if her friendship is important to you, keep trying to reach out to her. Maybe you could suggest that you hang out sometime, just the two of you?
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