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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:This past weekend (Friday) I hooked up with a guy...sort of. He came back to my place, we spent a lot of time talking, and ended up in bed. He went down on me, and I gave him oral..but he couldn't keep an erection. I thought maybe he wasn't turned on by me, but it seemed pretty obvious he was, telling me I was beautiful and things like that. So it seems it was performance anxiety. He was embarrassed. We talked for a little while before he left. I sent him a text the next day saying maybe we could go on a "real date" sometime. He responded a day later saying "that sounds great." Haven't heard from him since and that was 2 days ago. I can't stop thinking of him. Will he get in touch with me and when? Will he be too embarrassed to after what happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): As a fit and healthy male, I can't tell how the hardness can cause havoc at critical times; sometimes it won't go soft long after the business is done; and sometimes the reverse, like you experienced. Next time, persist with oral. It usually delivers.
Hey, the ball is in your court not his! You suggested going on a real date. Now tell him when/what/where...he is probably waiting...I know I would have been. Please don't bring ego into communication when you like a person.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Well, it's up to him, isn't it? In my opinion, you should allow him the initiative to either accept or reject your offer. Anything more would be pandering.
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