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anonymous
writes:I met a man a few months ago, he is a manager of a pub where i sometimes drink and my daughter and her friends drink there. We kissed before but a couple of weeks ago he asked if i would like a drink after the pub shut and i went. we kissed and nothing much else happened but he said he didnt want to have sex with me. Last friday night he text me about whether i was having an early night but it was at 12.50am so i didnt reply and when i seen him on sat afternoon he seemed a bit off although he looked he didnt speak....i really quite like him but am confused over his mixed messages what do you think?????
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reader, Empressjai +, writes (19 May 2010):
 hi, this man is not interested in you enough to take things further, like getting to know you better. Men usually know when they are interested in someone and they will not be shy in coming forward. he has stayed in his corner and only looked your way. please do not read anything into this because nothing seems to exist except your desires. If you try to pursue things further you risk rejection and being hurt.
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reader, Jessica1355  +, writes (19 May 2010):
I think that you can't really tell, he is still getting to know you and maybe he just wants to get to know you a couple mroe times. If he just wants to get in your pants then he would've tried already. If he wants more, you're going to have to get to know him better. And maybe after a few more dates you should be able to tell. Though, it is different for everyone. He may not know what he wants at all yet, or he might not want anything. But either way, you'll live through it. In the mean time, meet more people. :) Good luckk
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 DC readers must be tired by now to see me writing the same thing, but I will stubbornly repeat it again : there are no mixed messsages. If it is mixed, it's no message. No green light.
When there is an actual interest,sexual,emotional ,or both, the message will come across loud and clear.
People will do things in the spur of the moment- calling you,texting you, asking you out. But if they don't follow through they are not interested enough to begin with.
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reader, Cherry_Blossom99 +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Hi, I think it sounds like he is also a bit confused as to what he's doing. I think he obviously likes you because he asked you for a drink etc. Just take the speed off and laugh, and be friends for a while, once you are both relaxed in each other’s company then both of your true feelings will flow...and hopefully flourish! :) Good luck xx
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