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I have not spoken to her since she cancelled our date, how should I approach this?

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Question - (19 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A male Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been out with someone a few times and it seems to have gone well. She agreed to come out again last week.

Following this she messaged me for three days in a row initiating conversation/joking etc.

On the day we were suppposed to go out I was a bit short with one of her messages. She then asked where we were going or did I want to postpone. I told her where we were going then she asked to re-arrange as she was now busy.

Not spoken to her since, how do you think I should approach this or should I back off?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010):

Apologise for being short with her and see what that does.

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A female reader, Cherry_Blossom99 United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2010):

Cherry_Blossom99 agony auntI wouldn't make a big deal out the fact she cancelled. Just text her as normal, asking how she is, and see what the response is. Don't read too much into the cancelling - some things you can't help! and she obviously likes you if you've been out a few times, good luck x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2010):

Maybe text her and say hello and see how she is. See what the response is and decide whether you want to take it any further.

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