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How do I make sure I don't hurt him during a bj?

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Question - (19 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend has asked me to give him a blowjob, i dont think i am ready to yet, but i have been wondering, what would make him enjoy it to the max? And what do i do to make sure i dont hurt him?

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

PeanutButter agony auntOne of the simplest things to do here is to make sure you only go through with it when you are both ready to. Make sure you are relaxed and comfortable with the situation.

The only real way to know if he is comfortable is to go slow and to see what he likes. Some men like it to be a little different to others and so there is no set rule.

I would suggest not scraping your teeth, which will avoid hurting him. The rest is really up to you both to figure out as you go along.

Have fun with it and see what you both enjoy.

Just remember, you both have a right to say stop if at any time you decide it really is not for you.

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