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writes:I may have messed myself up sexually. Im 39 and during my life i had a few very bad relationships that caused me to push women away for the last 9-10 years. but just because i didnt want to be in a relationship or have relations doesnt mean that i had no sex drive. during that time i did practice and still practice masturbation as a release.I finally met a woman that i love with all my heart and is very good to me. we practice sex in many ways and that is fine other than actual intercourse. How do i say this?... it fells so damn good. better than i remembered it. so good that i nearly instantly want to ejaculate. shes not complaining. haha she tells me she loves the whole thirty seconds or so. but for me its a problem how can i increase my stamina in this area. when she touches me or goes down on me its not a problem but entering her makes me want to come right away. even though she is loving and encouraging, i'd still like to be able to give her more. She never fails to have an orgasm even if i finish her in another way but still.... is there any way to regain my youthful sex drive and performance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): Start running. Bob Glover's Runner's Handbook will get you started. I feel a difference if I don't run for several months. (that should tell you that I am not an athlete)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): yes you can do something about it and it is very easy and pleasurable and your partener will love you even more for it. Have more sex with her and more often and more than once when you are together. Masturbating for long periods cause premature ejaculation. that is why newly married males suffer from it in the begining then as time pass they adjust to normal sex and are cured.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): She has suggested that we go back to using condoms. It does dull the senses alot. sometimes to the point of frustration though and loosing an erection from that frustration, but when it works right.. its all we need. and i really love those expressions on her face. ive probably answered my own question. time to stop being so greedy i guess.
I did discover something else that helps me though. i often like lotions but once i used a type that had some mint in it and the tingling sensation was nice and kept me hard long after the ejaculation but i wonder what something like that would do to her.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Well, no. You can't really do anything about it except hope that you will not explode so soon. There is always hope. And if you ever watched the movie The Shawshank Redemption, you will see that hope is a good thing.
You should watch the movie. It could put your mind at ease.
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