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He's moving slower than I might expect -- could he be seeing someone else too?

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Question - (19 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing this guy for about a month now, we've known each other for about a year and he has a bit of a reputation for being a bit of a ladies man. Anyway he hasn't tried to have sex with me yet...he's never even mentioned it. On group clubbing nights out even when we're falling down drunk he doesn't ask me back to his or anything.

Everything is great between us, we hold hands we kiss and we cuddle (usually all initiated by him) I'm not complaining, i'm just a little confused due to his reputation. do you think hes having sex with someone else?

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A female reader, laetitia Canada +, writes (20 May 2010):

laetitia agony auntWell, in this case if you want to keep him, wait a bit for sex ( 3-4 months at least!). Time (but not intimacy) is an important factor when it comes to men and love.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

no we spend time together just us two and we refer to them as "dates" :) we've agreed we're seeing each other.

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A female reader, laetitia Canada +, writes (19 May 2010):

laetitia agony aunt1 month is a very short time. Maybe you've landed a good guy who's not with you only for sex or if he is, then he is not being pushy. If I am you, I will wait as long as possible before sleeping with him and trust me: eventually he will start demanding it!!! U'd be surprised, unless he's gay!

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