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female
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*eANicerGirl
writes:To sum up my long and complicated relationship of 3 years, I hurt my once devoted and loving boyfriend many times with lies , betrayal and bad attitude. He's given me many chances and trusted me again but I still do it... It's because I'm this self-centered, insecure girl who always wants to get attention .. Basically I didn't care about his feelings at all and he found me always leading other guys on etc. But I really do love him sometimes I just let my emotions take over. After 3 years, he tells me his once passionate feelings now became more like family love for me?? He said he feels like he is taking care of a sister who is sometimes really bad and rude to him.. He didn't say he wants to break up, but honestly he has not invested any emotions in a long time.. He is not using me in any way.. physically or emotionally.. he's just there for me when I need him to help.. but he just can't be affectionate to me any more he said he lost passionate feelings.. and he doesn't know if he "loves" me or not.. and he forgot the feeling when he was madly in love with me.. Is there any chance I can regain his love and trust? I asked him, "how can i be happy again when he can't love me any more.." and he says.. "when have I been happy since a long time ago.. ?" Help!!
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