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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So this friend (let's call him T) of mine used to talk to me and we used to be comfortable around each other.Then when his best friend told T that he was interested in me, things started going weirdly. T told my "sister" that his best friend was interested, but told her not to tell me; and for a note, she liked his bestfriend and T liked her..and so on. But anyways, after all that, he just started distancing himself from me. Like he doesn't talk to me as much and tries to avoid me basically.What's going on? And what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): Well, he's between 13 and 15 right? I can say from experience (i'm 21 now) that's the age where relationships and friendships betwen males and females start to get a bit confused. The thing is boys do mature slower and they deal with adult senarios such as a friend fancying a friend in a rather childlike or confused manner. He might be avoiding you for several reasons like, he likes you too, he's embarrased he told you his friend likes you, he's worried that if he spends to much time with you his friend will get jeolous, could be a lot of things. I would suggest that you don't get to annoyed with it it takes time for people to figure out what to do in these situations, and if your a young woman who like young men you'll probably be waitting for men to get themselves sorted out and figure out what they're doing for the next couple of years. Sit back, get one with school work don't let it annoy you and in a few year you won't even remember it and if something sparks your memory you'll probaby find it funny and silly.
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