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writes:Hi all, Me and my partner have been going out for two years now and have a lovely 6 month old baby girl, we have had a rough two years together and recently we broke up because my partner was not in love with me anymore and i dont blame her in a way cos i have not made things easy for her in certain ways and she admits some fault aswell so we were seeing eachother and things were ok till we had a row and she called the police as she got a bump over her eye and i was arrested and the same night we was talking on msn messenger and we came to the same conclusion that we was sorry for fighting and we wanted to try and work us out because we have feelings for each other still, we met up the next day and she withdrew her statment from the police and we had a nice day together.. She has just told me that she doesnt know if she wants to try and work things out with me and i dont know how to get a straight answer from her as she has some pressure from her family as they have fallen out with me over the whole incident so how can i get my point across to her that i love them both and i know deep down that we can be happy together she is unsure if we can but keeps changing her mind about us. could someone point us in the right direction please .thanks for reading this :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 The only advice I can give is just to go at it slow. Don't try and fix everything at once or become a "happy family" overnight. With time, her family may accept you again. When she is unsure of where this goes, don't invest too much at once. Don't make grand plans. Just take small steps and be there for her and your baby girl the best way you can.
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