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writes:A split up with my ex 3 years ago in June and a year and a half ago we got chatting again, we've spoken a handful of times in 18 months. Recently I have been seeing more of him as he is still friends with my brother and is doing all the plumbing work for me in my house. (He offered to do it)I know he has been with his girlfriend for a year now, and I am not interested in him at all. But his gf has been sending me msgs on facebook telling me to keep away from him, shes know what im trying to do, etc. She even went on about him still having my name tattooed on his chest. (we got tattoos of eachothers names when i was like 15, i got mine covered though)Im not trying to win him back, I'm happy with the way things are.My friends have said I should tell him what his gf is sending me but I don't wanna get in the middle of them. Should I find someone else to do the work that needs doing in my house. To stop all this hassle of his gf? Should I tell him whats shes be saying?I just really don't know what to do, please help.
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reader, Oliviiax +, writes (20 May 2010):
Oliviiax is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice.
It never stops with her the latest message I have had off her, is claiming that my 19 month old son is my exs now. Which believe me he is not!
Think its definately for the best that I find someone else to do the work, going to cost more money wise but if it means no hassle then it is worth it.
And to whoever said it sounds like he wants me back i can assure you he doesn't.
Thanks again for the advice, hopefully can get this sorted now.
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reader, xDiamondx  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Tell him about his gf and tell him you think it would be better if you got someone else to do the work.
I'm sure he'll understand..
It sounds though.. like he wants you back...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): You should absolutely tell him what she has been sending you. She's acting like a child.
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reader, brklynsis81  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 I think you should find someone else. Be up front with him, you don't have to be overly dramatic, but tell him that his girlfriend has sent you some messages indicating that she wants you to stay away from him, and you are going to respect her wishes. Then see how things fall into place. I mean, you don't really need her drama anyway.
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