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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you people, lots of helpful advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Just tell her, it wouldn't bother me if someone said
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Hi. When hair grows...it grows! If you are only feeling it sometimes then its a safe bet that she knows its there and is removing it. Just not very regularly. You could either learn to love the peach fuzz or just tell her when you feel a few hairs. Say they are tickling your lips and making you lose concentration. Mention it in a calm manner. I wouldnt make a joke out of it. She might be slightly embarrassed at first but then she will step up her grooming routine and it shouldnt be a problem again.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 If you're very comfortable with each other you could just ask. I used to pluck my two long nipple hairs, but once my boyfriend found out I had them he asked me to stop because he thought they were endearing and cute. However, many women are very insecure about their body hair. So unless you're super comfortable bringing up things like this, I might not say anything. If you do bring it up bring it up in a joking manner.
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reader, {*HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*} +, writes (19 May 2010):
 tell her to use tumeric mixed with gram flower, make it to a paste and put it on....when it gets dry wipe it off. this naturally removes hair forever (if you do it a couple of times)
or she could rub PURE rose water not the one 4 food
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): Make light of it. Just say, you got hair on your nipples! she should get shy then pluck them out.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Grab at her breasts instead of licking them, or suggest that she picks them away because you get them in your mouth. Or focus on other parts of her body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know everyone has hair!......how do I go about saying, you have adark hair near your nipple without her getting upset or self conious!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 May 2010):
Everyone has nipple hair. Don't you have nipple hair? I know generally we're portrayed in the media as being totally hairless, but women do have hair. Just like we pretty much all have cellulite. I guess if it really bugs you could ask her to shave it. You should offer a personal grooming of yourself in return (like trim pubes).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): You can pluck them, don't shave them!!!!!!! Do not!!!!
Plucking them doesn't hurt more than anywhere else
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