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writes:So I've been in a relationship for almost five years until 3.5 months ago, so I don't know what it feels like to be single in college because I've been in the past relationship since high school. With that being said, recently this guy asked me out on a date by writing on my facebook wall. I use to work with him and then he quit after a while (we barely worked together though..but when we did he was always very sweet to me). After he left work almost a year ago, he would randomly comment on my pictures just teasing me but that was the end of that. It was about a month (after my breakup with my ex) ago when he wrote on my wall asking me on a date. So a few days later, I online chatted him and he basically asked me to hang out and I jokingly asked if he was asking me out on a date. He said that he did not have the confidence for something like that. So I gave him my number and he texted me right away the next day. We made plans to hang out the next day, but I ended up drinking at my best friends house and I think he got upset and told me he lost his ride (his car is broken). He kept on texting me all night to come to this bar he was at and I said that I would see him the next day. He wanted me to go to the movies with him. That night, he kept on texting me to go see him, so I went to his house. We ended up talking for like 1.5 hours. He asked me if I wanted to sleepover since I drank some alcohol (he offered his bed to me ..while he said he was going to stay on the couch). I told him what if I wanted him to sleep next to me jokingly and he said that he could do that too. He ended up popping a movie in. After 30 minutes into the movie, he started kissing me. We made out all night and he told me that I was so beautiful. I ended up waking up with him spooning me still around 7:30am. I couldn't go back to sleep so I left his house. He texted me right away in the morning 3 hours later being cute saying that he cried because i left him. He asked me what I was doing that day and I said that i was doing homework, so we never ended up going to the movies. Since then, we've been texting back and forth. He even texted me one night when he was drunk, but I was asleep.My question is..what is going on with his feelings for me? I really like him and I'm so confused. I'm wondering if he's a player (he is so cute--lots of girls drool over him) but the thing is he such a nice guy that I can't envision him in that way
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): I don't think it's smart to sleep with him btw
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): I meant that I can't envision him as a player
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): can you please clarify: "the thing is he such a nice guy that I can't envision him in that way"?
if can do the deed with him...he's more than just a friend...right?
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