Whenever there is a problem my b/f goes into hiding

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We have an amazing relationship and are very much in love. We get along great and love each others company. He's ONLY problem, is that if he feels there is going to be some sort of confrontation, he will avoid me. We live 2 hours apart. He has a sketchy phone that is always broken, and yes I know it is because I've seen it. He does have personal sites, myspace and facebook. If he thinks I'm mad at him, instead of simply responding to me, letting me know everything's fine, he'll continue to ignore me and that in turn makes me feel highly unwanted. I am able to see on myspace that he has read my messages, and just hasn't responded. His phone isn't working yet, but should be soon. Should I wait this out, or just completely end it because he can't even just send me a simple thing saying yes he is thinking of me and blah blah. That's all I ask! It's not too much, it's human need to know that the one you love still feels the same. He's the one that's always brought up children, and getting married. We had just spent a great weekend together and now this started on Sunday Night. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me too, but it just sucks that without a phone, he makes me feel abandoned. Like I said before I'm not asking him to write a novel, just grow the nads to actually respond to me and reassure me everything is fine.

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