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writes:i am gooing out with this person and we hhug and hold hands and all that sort of thing but i find it so embarrasing when we hold hands and my hands get all sweaty i mean i dontt think that he minds buut what if he does so i need help with why my hands could be sweating all the time and how i could stop it. help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Your case sounds like a nervous trigger, meaning as you hold hands your body automatically reacts. If you have sweaty hands normally a visit to the Doctors may help sort the problem out. If not may be you could link his arm or put you arms around each others shoulders or waist. The main thing is if he hasn't commented then I he does't see it as a problem and neither should you, so stop homing in on the sweaty hands and enjoy your boyfriend.
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reader, Trappedandanxious +, writes (19 May 2010):
Sweaty hands arn't really something that can be got rid of, though you might ant to speak to a doctor and see if he/she can recommend anything. You could just point it out and make it into a bit of a joke though, it won't stop them sweating but it might stop you from feeling nervous about it. He probably dousn't mind, you'd be surpried what boys put up with if they like a girl, the little problems can be endearing. I have had a number of boyfriends who had sweaty palms and lthough i did notice i wouldn't say it was the biggest thing on my mind, the thrill of holding hands with somebody i liked far outweighed the concern for there sweaty palms. If he's a nice guy and he really likes you i'll be the same for him.
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