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male
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30-35,
*ack-off
writes:if i love my girlfriend and if she loves me, why arent we moving anywhere, we're both 16, we've been together 9months, and there just isnt that how you say 'a spark' anymore, but i love her is there anyway to get that back?
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reader, brklynsis81  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 In every relationship, there is that initial spark. That initial chemistry that is all about romance and something new. It's not unusual for that to fade. If the relationship is meant to be, usually that spark is replaced by other feelings - feelings of mutual respect, caring, sexual chemistry, etc. I would say if you don't feel yourself moving into one of those areas, this relationship has run its course. But please understand - that initial romance nearly always fades in every relationship. I call it the "puppy love" phase.
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