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36-40,
*essper84
writes:I just met a guy from the army...we met in ny we had a good time for four days then he had to go back to iraq. We been talking everyday he seems like a nice guy but of course I still got to get to know him. He invited me to the ball when he don't with iraq.the ball is in upstate...but should I be with a guy from the army is it really worth it? I don't wnat to get hurt cause I know they have to leave for periods of timedont know if I can deal with it...the next place he's going to is georia and if I decided to be with him I'm going to move out there but I'm scared to take that step...
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reader, jessper84 +, writes (4 June 2010):
jessper84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice I really don't know if I can deal with being lonly if I move and I don't have friends and family by my side it would be different if he leaves but I'm locted with people I love cause its hard for me to make friends so it will be very lonely wish it wasn't that complicated
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reader, raiders +, writes (3 June 2010):
 It is hard to be an army wife or girlfriend, but if the love is there you will make it work. Now in your case you have met and probably found him very attractive and you fantasize about a relationship with him. Truth be told it is a lonely life and you have to have your mind set to lonely nights and lonely days because they departure often. With that in mind you just have to appreciate them more when they are base in the states. Spend time together when possible and love each other very much and it would work. Don't close your eyes to happiness just because he is in the army.
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