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writes:"OPs Own Title" Hello I have been with my bf for a year an 6months an hes decided he wants to go to the air force ill miss him but i support his decision..but now I'm mad because now he says hes enlisting with some girl so they can get stationed in riverside..he claims shes his friend but have never heard of her...I don"t know if going with her means they will live together but I admit it raises question an makes me jealous for some reason..and now hes says he going to her house everyday to run and all this crap...an talking to her on the phone with the recruiter... but why go to her house everyday??? maybe I'm jealous because we have broken up over him flirting with his female friend early in the relationship..but we have not had that problem since until now maybe...I don"t know why but the situation makes me feel like"here we go again"... am I overreacting?? and where did this girl come from..I have never heard of her and she is suppose to be his friend??
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reader, AngelleMarie +, writes (4 June 2010):
Okay, how close are you too? i mean do you tell each other basically everything, because if so... then him not telling you about this girl who is all of a sudden his best friend would make me suspicious too.
But since he's being very open about going over to her house to run everyday doesnt seem like something someone who is cheating on you would do... if he were cheating on you with her... you would probably not know about her. But hey... maybe he's more ballsy.
I think you need to talk to him about it... its not good to keep these things held in... and there is no point in you worrying over something that you dont need to be worried about.
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