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writes:"OPs Own Title" Do you think its a possibility that a Girl who wants to be just friends. After being friends for long while hanging out and all that stuff that makes her more comfortable around you. That she can like you again? I mean I guess you can say true relationship start from friendship if so then why would girls say I think we should be just friends if its possible that she can like you after that, I know sounds confusing Main point can a girl like like after saying I think we should be friends your opinions? So my story This girl and I had it going on for 4 months now 5. She said lets be friends first so we feel that click and we did after while it was going great. So on our fist hangout instead of dates it was bad I guess I went a little to fast on her and that was my fault I thought it was time for a kiss since its been so long. But I guess she was nervous and wasnt ready she had to go. After that day we talked she said she didn't feel that click I couldn't believe idk what happened may be it was because of that hangout. So I said lets hang again and she let me and this time it was really fun. And again we hanging out going ice skating. But idk how thats going to work if she just wants to be friends and usually when we ice skate we hold hand that was before. Do you think shes giving me another chance to like me again or something like redemption should I give it time for her feelings to come back. Or just in general can a girl like you after she say she just wants to be friends? Tips or advice on what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Slow down and just take it one step at a time. You are moving too fast for her and it's making her nervous.. If you push for feelings, you might just scare away any that she has for you.
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reader, Charleybabes0811  +, writes (3 June 2010):
I'd say if you're really interested then just be friends for a while and see how it works out.
Maybe she just doesnt want a relationship right now? So you need to show her how easy you are to fall for.
Let her make the first move, or look for obvious signss
From the sounds of it, any girl would be lucky to have you :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Well, it could go either way. I told a guy I was friends with and hung out with that I wasn't interested in him and that I just wanted to be friends.This year we're about to celebrate 12 years of marriage. :)
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 I think she just wants to be friends. You should move on.
Good Luck!
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reader, Hope24 +, writes (3 June 2010):
Hope24 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPs I ment by holding hands during ice skating is because she wanted to hold mine and the fact the she didnt know how ice skate so Im just wondering why she said yes to go ice skating with me again only to hold on to the wall which doesnt make any sense?
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