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*andaManderkins
writes:*OP's suggested title*Dear Cupid, I have a huge crush on a boy in my school. We use to be normal friend a few talks here and there. But now we hang out in our classes all the time. I sent him a flirty facebook message one time saying he should text me and he did. And we texted for a while but then we never talked in person so I stopped. And then he started talking to me in person. Then there is a dance.. and the night was going really well and I see him at the dance so I say hi and casually talk with him. He then later finds me on the dance floor and we grinded for the longest time. Then he left and came back so we danced again, and he left and came back again! and at the end of the dance we danced to a slow song and we just talked and swayed and then I put my head on his shoulder and danced like that till the lights turned on. Later we didn't talk much after the dance and well.. one day we did again and he teases me all the time now, and my friend Jessica says she sees him staring at me all the time. And we talk all the time. and When I tried to ignore him he always brings up conversation with me. one day I decided to be cool and sexy by trying to play 20 questions with him. I asked what the most fun he ever had with a girl was? and he freakin said watching a movie marathon with my girlfreind. I was shocked and really hurt. so I vowed to not like him but I can't help it I have liked him for a whole year. and well he seems like he flirts with me by being mean.oh and whenever we talk he always looks straight into my eyes. and then one time our teacher called him out for flirting with me and he blushed bright red (as did I)and well Does he like me or What kinda game is he playing with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Get rid of him. If he ended up leaving her to be with you, what would be stopping him from doing the same thing to you?
Or what if he tries to have both of you at the same time?
He's a player, straight up. I had a friend like this once. You deserve better. He's just acting sweet to get what he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): whether he had a girlfriend or not he was still playing you , i think you should really just get rid of him hun obviously you are much to good for him x
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reader, MandaManderkins +, writes (3 June 2010):
MandaManderkins is verified as being by the original poster of the question Okay, never said I loved him. And you giys both have good points but I forgot to leave out a major fact he was not dateing her when he went to the dance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Iv had the same problem , a boy i liked always flirted with me we went to different schools , and he was going out with my friend and he would not stop it . does he know you like him? this could be why hes flirting with you , he might be using you to get something else , if hes like that. But the guy who did this to me iv completely got shot of him! and you should do the same , you need to find someone who wants to be with you not someone else or not have you to come back to whenever he likes because hun trust me hes not worth the hassle , delete him out of your life you will feel much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): That boy is a straight up player and you should cease all contact with him so you can get over him and find a boy who will only date YOU. Also, think of the girlfriend; she probably doesn't even know what her boyfriend is up to. He could easily be flirting with other girls. Get out of this before things get too serious and you have an angry girlfriend after you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 He is probably unaware that you are reading so much into these little signs. All the boy does is basically being nice to you, while you being in love read so much more into his actions.
He has a girlfriend. So he likes someone else more than you, and that is his girlfriend. Give it up now and respect that he's not single. If he really liked you more he would have broken it off with his girl. He probably just enjoys your company, but is not in love.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Put yourself in his girlfriend's place. Would you date and like a guy who has no problems flirting with other girls while he was your girlfriend?
If he cheats on this other girl with you, how do you think he'll treat you if YOU were the one dating him? Sooner or later, his eye will start wandering other places, and he's demonstrated that he has no concept of faithfulness.
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