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writes:the other night my husband was very drunk and made sexual innuendos to my best friend, he states that he remembers none of the conversation but she told me what he said and it sickens me. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Forget it for now.. It is fine. He does a minor slip. But do not create these opportunities to him for future
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): It is too easy to blame excess use of alcohol for bad behaviour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): I agree with marieclaire. It is a bit too convenient to blame 'not remembering'. Bottom line is he said it and maybe we say what we really feel when we've had a few? I wouldn't trust him. Besides that...do you really want to be with someone who behaves like that? Your friends are worth more than him trust me. In future - certainly for the short term I would go out without him. If he can't behave himself and respect your friends what kind of a man is he.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 June 2010):
I agree with MarieClaire. The whole 'I forgot because I was drunk' excuse is overused and pretty lousy.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (3 June 2010):
Ok he was drunk and don't remember so how do you know it really happened because your friend says? how good of a friend is she can you trust your friend to be honest w/ you the only reason iam asking and not trying to be forward is because you did'nt say that much other then he was drunk and made a pass? how much do you trust your husband i mean these are questions you need to ask your'self! has your friend ever acted weird around your husband! visa versa because what you have was a drunk husband that does'nt remember would'nt you of liked your hubands reply to be no i would not make a pass at her you are my wife and i love you! i may have been drunk but i know i would not of done that. thats one thing about getting loaded like that you black out and end up in perdictiments like that not good! it leaves you not knowing and who do you believe or trust and you have done nothing wrong to deserve any of it.GOOD LUCK!
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