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writes:I recently got out of a 5 year relationship with a man i cared deeply for. It ended because I could no longer take the abuse, cheating and disregard for anything that didn't effect him personally. When he cheated she got pregnant. she just moved in and they are now expecting another child. He and I have a son together, what I am wondering is how can I get over the bitter taste he left in my mouth?? I started seeing someone and he is great but i keep waiting for him to mess up or cheat. I would hate to go down bitter because of one man. Please Help!
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reader, reb1018 +, writes (15 May 2012):
reb1018 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): i think the best way is to care more for yourself rather than waiting for that man to mess up. what if he isn't planning to do this? advise you to "upgrade" and enrich yourself cuz your future is in your own hands now.
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 There are some a*rseholes out there who seem to revel in doing this sort of thing. He's left you with a child, you need to try and forget him, he isn't worthy of your thoughts. This new man is with you for you and you just need to try and accept that not all men are losers. I know its hard, im not saying its easy. I have major trust issues and whenever i find myself thinking that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me i think of times when my current boyfriend has shown me that i can trust him more than anyone. Try that, it might make things less difficult but you need to let your current partner know that your feeling insecure and ask him to comfort you. Thats all that i can suggest because that is whats started to help me, i still think irrational things but i know deep down that he isn't going to cheat on me.
Good luck honey :) x
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