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writes:Hi Cupid,I have been married for 14 years and past few years have been very stressful and I am not happy in my marriage. It has gone to a point that my husband and me are complete strangers in the house. I went on a trip last week and met a guy who showed some interest in me. After couple of meetings I was highly attracted to him. We were making out in the car and I was close to having sex with him but stopped at the last moment. Back home, I confessed to my husband and he is ready to put this in the past and move on. I feel guilty about the whole thing and still feel something is missing in our marriage. I am totally confused and do not know what to do. Please advise??
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reader, raiders  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Give your marriage a chance try to fix it now that its still savable. I really feel this is a low blow to your husband but if you two discuss this and he forgave you, shows he is a good man. Cheating on a spouse is bad and many marriage can't move forward but yet your husband has decided to give you another chance and look the other way, treasure this man. Talk with him and discuss the problem and really fix it while you still can. I wish you all the luck and don't give up on your marriage give it a fair shot.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 June 2010):
You need to be wary of your husband at this time. Men all too often take a while to process what has happened. In a few weeks, it might suddenly hit him, so you need to be ready. Now is the time to tell him that you need to both sit down and revitalize your marriage. Dates, spending time together, and even counselling. You've got to start all over again. And you need to do it now before he has too much time to think about what has happened. I think it's worth trying to fix it before ending it, so try to fix it.
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