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writes:Hi there,I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon.I'm scared, he told me he really likes me, what happens if he tries to kiss me?I'm not the least bit experienced! :( What happens if something goes wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you ever so much for all your help, everyone. Its honestly does mean a lot. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): Don't do it if you aren't ready. Try & relax as he comes closer to your face. If he leans in 50%, then you lean in the other 50%. Let those thoughts of being a bad kisser aside, and just let it happen naturally. If you are not ready for this, communicate with your partner or slightly move your head away to let him plant a kiss on your cheek, because of "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS," he might noticed you don't want to kiss.
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reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 If your turn away from an intended kiss and he plants one on your cheek or elsewhere, like a voracious owl dive-bombing a field mouse for lunch, then you probably don't want this guy to kiss you, anyway. In which case he won't have. So it's self-cancelling. Problem solved!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Yea.. turn head aside and he will end up kissing your cheek, you'll miss the first kiss, but it's an elegant way to tell him no if you don't feel you like him.
Your hands go on his shoulders, his can go round your waist, or on your arms... he shouldn't be touching any private places, if he dose, just move his hands back to your shoulders.
When your ready (or he's ready) you just move your heads closer and your lips meet. Best to close eyes, seems more romantic.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (4 June 2010):
You can't go wrong with a breath mint or two..stick with classic flavors like a light mint or spearmint, a hint of cinnamon, but nothing strong, over powering or over the top fruity. Stay clear of things that turn your mouth a bright, unnatural blue, yellow, green, or red. That's just plain ol' unattractive.
This prevents "cotton mouth"
Also a light, clear lip moisturizer works wonders. Less is more because you don't want to look like you've been drooling. Also avoid heavy or dark lipsticks or lip glosses, these can smear both of you giving you a clown face.
IF you welcome the kiss, the above applies. If you don't want him to kiss you, then you can politely turn aside and confidentially, but nicely tell him you're just not ready for it. Just relax and try not to worry too much about it and you'll come through it with flying colors!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 June 2010):
My first kiss... dry crackly lips.. his felt like sandpaper, mine felt worse... but I liked him, he liked me..
Kissing wasn't that great, but the hug was the best.
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reader, raiders +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Yes please tell me what your scared of..
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 June 2010):
What could go wrong? Tell us what you imagine might happen.. Do you think you'll bite his nose of or something.. you tell us, and we'll try to put your mind at rest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, but I mean I really am scared about the whole kissing him concept. I really don't know what to do.
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reader, raiders +, writes (3 June 2010):
I would suggest you wait and if he kisses you than you kiss him back. Puppy love is the greatest just go out enjoy your date hold his hand, and have a great time. Don't rush into the kissing until you are both ready. Make sure you take a mint just incase. Have fun sweety.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks that's helped, but I'm worried because I think I like him, I have never felt like this before in my life.
The whole concept of kissing him scares me, I don't know how or when, I'm scared. I mean I would like to kiss him.
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reader, raiders +, writes (3 June 2010):
Sorry typo had to fixs it since it didn't look right in my eyes hehehe.
If you don't really like this boy than just wait till right right boy to come around ,you do want YOUR first kiss to be special.
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reader, raiders +, writes (3 June 2010):
If you don't want him to kiss you than don't allow it.
I remember my first kiss and you know what it wasn't special, or at least I don't remember it as special.
If you don't really like this boy than just wait till right right boy to come around ,you do want our first kiss to be special.
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