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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I need help....I know what I did is wrong and I even lost weight and lost appetite due to guilt and regret.I am married and doing a job that requires high moral values private or public and I am a well known leader in my community and the city.I cheated on my wife with two people and it was the first time in my life, I dont know what I was doing and now the other women is pregnant and the other is blackmailing me that she will tell, she wants me to go out with her and be in a relationship with her, but I can't I love my wife and it was just a mistake on my part. Please advise me what to do? If my wife finds out I know she will be badly affected and she might even divorce me the way I know her and I also might or will lose my job. I dont know what to do now, please help.
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 If your wife divorces you, you must accept that as a consequence of your behavior, but you cannot continue to hide the pregnancy or be blackmailed. Yes, your marriage and career are probably over, but you set these things in motion with your infidelity.
Tell your wife. All things done in the dark will soon come to light. There's no way to avoid this.
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