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writes:Okay, so I had been living with my boyfriend for about eight months and everything was going great and i moved in with him and his family really took me in considering i wasn't close with my parents they really became my family and everything was great, but then he started abusing me, first he just started getting uncontrollably jealous, then he was very verbally abusive, but then he was shoving me around and then it got worse and worse. But i loved him with all my heart and i swear we were meant to be together and i was so attached to his family and they knew what was going on and they were letting it happen so i didn't do anything but it finally got so bad that i had to go to the police. It's been almost five months since then and i've been so depressed and i don't know if i can get over it. I constantly think about him and i just want him back. I know it's wrong and what he did was terrible, and i had a protective order against him and he's probably going to prison soon, but i feel completely empty now, i just want to be with him. I'm so confused, he was my entire life for so long, i don't really know how to live without him, does anyone know what i'm going through or if i'll ever get over this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): You miss him because you are used to him. This is a big change that's why you cant seem to except it. You don't want to loose that what you've gained. It will take some time but you know what they say "time heels all wounds". Try to focus on something else, you cant stay with him. You need to get your life back.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 June 2010):
You need to address your esteem and confidence. No woman goes for a violent man unless she feels bas about herself. In no way are you meant to be together. The man is violent and treated you like dirt. There's no love there at all. I think you're suffering with your own esteem issues, so that's what needs to be addressed here.
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