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female
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36-40,
*ustagal
writes:I have a query! actually im confused and shy about it. and it ay sound like im stupid bt i have to clarify. iv a bf from 5 yrs. we have sex once a week or so, but the thing is i dont know if i have orgasms. i cnt find out. i lubricate and often a little slimy thing be there after sex, but is it all ! iv read and listend so many things about it and i wish to feel it once, but im just not sure i have it or not. my bf also . rly confuse. i triede musterbating too. but the same thing. a tiny portion of white fluid just like my normal fluid :(
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 That is not an orgasm. An orgasm is an extremely pleasurable feeling spreading through your body. Not some slime. For many women, natural lubricant go hand in hand with having an orgasm, so many get soaked after wards. However, the body juices themselves are not the "orgasm" per se. It is the feeling that is the orgasm, the release of pleasure in your body.
You have unfortunately never had an orgasm. Experiment with yourself and with toys and try to reach one on your own. It can take time and practice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Apparently that is not an orgasm..
i know it because that is the way it happens to me.. it is hard to believe that i am going through life without knowing what an orgasm feels like.
I bet you love having sex and feel great, and there is that moment that you feel that "this is it".. and then poof! it passes!
yeah.. very frustrating.
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