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writes:I've been in a relationship for 9 months now and me and my boyfriend have come to the stage where we want to start doing things, i was fine with the idea, as i was ready for it too, but i have a problem with my vagina area, i only noticed it yesterday and immediately thought about what me and my boyfriend wanted to do and didnt know whether we could or not, i feel embarrassed about it. it looks like my ovaries but i was thinking surely they cant be visible, i cant think of anything else it could be, i feel too embarrassed to show and ask my mum but i really want help and advice on what to do.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (8 July 2010):
 im afraid there just isn't enough detail in your question to really answer it. If it was your ovaries... you'd be in hospital. Just calm down. take a deep breath. See you GP, even look up images on google to see if it's normal for you. If it's only just appeared (as in its something uve never had before) then see ur gp ASAP. but if it's something that's always been there, and you've only just really thought about it, it's more than likely perfectly normal?
You haven't given any details about exactly where or what it is, which i realise is hard to do. Don't be ashamed to ask your mum. But at the very least u can always call a sexual health helpline. don't be shy about it. it's better that you put your nerves to rest now. you can also use the opportunity to discuss safe sex.
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reader, gem_x3 +, writes (7 July 2010):
sorry it posted on wrong question :/
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reader, gem_x3 +, writes (7 July 2010):
omg i practically wrote an essay and it hasnt shown! -.-.
anyway,
i know exactly how you feel, i was in the exact same situation as you just 3 weeks ago, i turned 16 yesterday and was continously battaling the debate of whether or not just to lose it or whether i should keep it. me and this boy i have known for a while got back in contact and ended up doing "stuff", one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex, deep down i wanted it but i didnt at the smae time so i made him stop. ever since i have felt a slight feeling of regret and it caused alot of problems, now when people ask if im a virgin and i say no it just doesnt feel right. my advice, coming from someone who was in the same boat as you is to keep it and wait for that special guy, follow your heart but make sure you use your head wisely dont jump into something your not100% certain of goodluck hun!
(sorry last answer was much better!)gem xx
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