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Why do guys like bachelor parties so much?

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Question - (7 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why do guys like bachelor partys so much? I dont even want a bachelorette party. I asked my bf if he wants one and he asked me if i would be upset and i said i wouldnt really want you to have one it could lead to problems. He said ok but if his bestfriend surprises him with one he cant say no then i said why, he said cause "hes like a brother to me its the one night i can live with out regrats and i know that i would never cheat on you but having one would also help me not feel pressuerd to." We kept talking about it and he then agreed he wouldnt have one. But now the thing thats buging me is, sence hes not haven one would he really feel pressuerd to cheat on me? He said he knows he never would but still. Thanks for your time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

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Thanks for your ansewrs, and i do trust him but if hes drunk and theres strippers there he might not have the best judgment plus i dont want a bachelorette party so i dont see why he would need a bachelor party. My parents dint have one they had a joined party thing. Also would he really feel more pressured to cheat on me if he dint have one? Or was he trying to convince me to let him have it? Thanks once again.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (7 July 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntGet rid of the bachelor party at your own risk, it already sets a precedent that you don't trust him... and isn't that a quality you want most in a partner and marriage... trust?

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