A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi i need help. about 3 months ago i started to like this girl my age(15) and we got to know each other more and more then she said that she kinda liked me too. a few days later talked again and i found out she had a boyfriend i felt as if i was being used so i got pretty upset with her. about 2 months later i met another nice girl we are now currently dating but now the other girl has found out that i have a girlfriend and she told me that she wants me and not her boyfriend and i think i like the other girl more then my girlfriend even though my girlfriend is really sweet. what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, act-casual +, writes (7 July 2010):
Well it's not fair to lead your girlfriend on if there's someone you like more than her. You'll both just end up miserable.
My advice would be to break up with your girlfriend and after a few weeks, go after the girl you like.
A
female
reader, cindy 15 +, writes (7 July 2010):
i also have this exact feeling but with a guy though and i am the same age as you believe it or not but its difficult to choose i know i wouldnt even as a gitl myself wouldnt want to hear that my boyfriend likes another girl but at least i know the truth i know but you have to be honest about this even though i know you dont want to but u have to be honest i now still go out with my boyfriend and im happy that i told him so now u have 2 be brave and tell her if you want to and hopefully she will understand when the time comes
it will hurt her but she will understand she sounds like a nice girl but i dont think she deserves to be lied too
good luck! do the right thing!!
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