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writes:Ok, I just recently caught a glimpse of my little brother masturbating to the computer, but he didnt see me. I didnt get a very clear view of the picture at first, but I did notice that it was a saved image. I waited a while and then hopped on the computer when he was done to try to find the image. I looked in the recently opened documents and opened all the images and was horrified at what I found! The pictures were all of me! One of them was me in my bathing suit at Myrtle Beach, another was me sleeping in a very sexual position, the third was me sleeping and him grabbing my chest(my tank was pulled up, nothing underneath), the last was the worst of all. Lets just say it was me in my room without anything on. I also noticed that some of my undergarments(bras, panties, nighties) have disappeared. I did find one of my bras under a shirt just inside his room. How on earth could he have gotten all of these(some were crusty, do the math)? I am a very light sleeper, or at least I thought I was until now. Now Im afraid to even take a hoodie off even when my door is locked. Any suggestions on what to do? Im rather horrified! Some of you may wonder why I told you what the picture were, and it is so you know just how horrified I am. Do you know of a any way I can put a stop to this? I would rather not involve our parents because they would actually send him away to some horrible place, like juvie or boot camp, and I dont want that to happen. That or my dad might kill him. I mean I am flattered and all that somebody would think I look that good, but I want it to stop and I dont want anything like that to happen to him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Apparently some of his friends told him that I was hot, and a few other things. Pier pressure, ya know. I already erased them from the computer. I have a feeling it wont happen again.
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reader, cyrusthevirus475 +, writes (11 July 2010):
O.K., I had a sickening situation like this with my cousin. Let me tell you, there is only one way to stop this. Embarrass the hell out of this kid. Bring it up in front of his friends, people he admires or respects. Make him regret it, I know it sucks. You probably care about this kid. However, you really are doing him a favor, if he makes a habit out of this, he may not do it to someone so kind as to not force him to get sent somewhere he doesn't want to be depending on his age. Keep the pictures, catch him in the act, and make him pay for via emotional scaring. mental conditioning is your best bet. I seriously do not mean to offend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Did he tell you why he took the pictures of you and why he was masturbating to them? Like, what gave him that idea? And were you able to get rid of the pics he took of you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): I suppose I phrased that wrong by saying I was flattered by him. I meant that in general for anyone. I believe the last one was taken when I was home alone changing in my room with my door open(Why close my door to change if nobody is home?). I was told by my mom that he was at friends, but I guess he wasnt. Sneaky little guy cause I didnt hear him. I did have a talk with him and explained that it was wrong and I think he understands now. He doesnt exactly have anyone else to explain to him whether things are right or wrong. I told him that he can talk to me about anything whenever he needs to, and I think that made him feel better. I do have a friend with a little sister who is about his age, maybe Ill try to get them together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): So you are flattered that your brother thinks you look so hot and sexy that he would take pictures of you to masturbate to? And how did he get the pic of you with nothing on? Were you sleeping naked that time?
I think some of this is kinda normal. He is a 14 year old boy, so the sight of a naked female body turns him on. Also, you are older than he is, and probably very sexy, since you are only 18. I would say talk to him about it, tell him that's wrong for him to do this. Ask him why he masturbates to your pics, and tell him you kinda understand why he is doing this. This should get him open up and give you an idea of what's going on in his mind.
You could suggest that he download some pics off the Internet of very sexy-looking women and masturbate to those pics instead of yours. Or if any of your friend have little sisters that are good-looking, maybe you could fix him up with one of those girls so he will get his mind off of you. Good luck and if you talk to him, post back here and describe what he said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): You should start locking your door at night. If you don't have a lock, you can hang something on your door knob that will make a lot of noise when somebody opens the door. You say you are a light sleeper and yet he somehow managed not to wake you up. Did he maybe slip you a pill during dinner? At 14 he is not exactly a kid any more and he might have some older friends who gave him that stuff. Maybe talking to your parents isn't such a bad idea. It would be bad enough if he was simply fantasizing about you, but he violated your privacy in a very serious way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): my brother is 14. I did delete the pictures as soon as I found them, but he probably thought they were safe to have because he buried them pretty deep in the computer, we have 2 and everyone else barely uses this one. If they hadnt been in the recent documents, I would have never found them. I checked the folder they were in and it was empty after i deleted them. I even formated the camera memory card just in case they were still hidden somewhere on it. He really only pulled my shirt up, not take it off. Ill try to have a talk with him tomorrow when he gets back from staying at his friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Agreed, we need his age. Any naked female they can get their eyes on is all the same at some ages. I would suggest you lock your door when you sleep. He's probably just curious and being a hormonal boy and you are just the most available naked girl. It is alarming that he has the guts to remove your clothes while you sleep and take pictures of you AND then save them on the family computer where anyone could find them. I HOPE you deleted these pictures off the computer. If you refuse to speak with your dad I suggest you confront him and tell him plainly that you found what he's been upto and that he better stop or you will speak with your father. Or my other suggestion would be to speak to another family member maybe an aunt or uncle that could speak to him in a more calm manner than your father will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): What you have to do is confront him about the images, and say taht it is wrong and you don't fancy him and that hisbehaviour has been appalling and he must stop. Don't involve your parents.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (7 July 2010):
 How old is your "little" brother?
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