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writes:My friends and family don't like my boyfriend, they think hes a thief and we did catch him once with a cell phone but he did have a good excuse for how he had it. he had a phone that looked just like the one that was stolen/lost and they both ended up in his bag. they also think that he uses me cuz i gave him a place to stay in a hotel for a month. he has no job. but i told him that it was too much for me and he left but we're still together. I'm afraid that if i stay in the relationship then its going to ruin my friendship with my friends. I'm not sure what's right. I need some advice please.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 July 2010):
 I don't know. He sounds a bit fishy to me too. What is it that you see in him?
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (7 July 2010):
Aprt from saying he's your boyfriend what does this guy do for you?
Because if you seem to be flavishing things on him with very little back from him, I could see why friends and family may not like him.
Also love is blind- it is very rare that both your friends and family dislike a boyfriend. He must be giving off some very bad vibes. Please don't push away people that have been there for you, for a boyfriend.
It is okay for them to want more for you then a homeless, jobless guy. You deserve more, you can get more. Stop feeling sorry for him!
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