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writes:I want to know when is it my time to cheat? I've had plenty of oppertunity to sleep with some broad. My girl admitted to sleeping with someone i confided in. I wuz out of town when this happened and i'm still pissed. I feel like sleeping with her sister, but that wouldn't bee much of a chalenge. I would find someone outside the circle to cheat with that way none the wiser. Is my thinking off or do i just want to get off???? An eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth? Is it that or is i just can't handle the truth that its over??? Blinded by vegas...[Mod note: Caps Lock off, please.] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Move on like an adult. Dont tit for tat like a 12 year old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): You are hurt and angry, and that's totally understandable, but cheating on her just brings you down to her level.
Is the relationship worth saving? Is she sorry, or is her attitude just like, "oh, well?"
Infidelity is huge, and it's not something you can just simply get over. It's a betrayal. You need to decide what you want and go from there.
It sounds like you might be better off ending it and find someone you can trust.
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reader, loraemoon  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 if you go and cheat then you would be as bad as her, instead of playing games why dont you either get on with your relation ship or just walk away instead of cheating
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): If you have no interest in saving your relationship then yes, sleep with another woman and then tell your GF.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Two wrongs doesn't make it right.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 July 2010):
 "some broad"...who are you Frank Sinatra?
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (7 July 2010):
If you now want to cheat just to get back at her then your relationship is simply over.
An eye for an eye and then the world will be blind.
You have every right to be angry at your girlfriend for cheating but if you want to stay with her then you cant stoop so low.
If you think it is finished with her then simply leave her and you can sleep with as many people as you like and she will still have to live with the guilt that she lost the man she loved because she cheated and your now out enjoying yourself again with other women.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 July 2010):
You don't cheat. You either work on your relationship, or you end it. But don't cheat, or you become the same as your girlfriend, a cheat. And then you can't be trusted, and you get a bad reputation. Either end it with her, or work on it. but don't cheat, or you cheapen yourself.
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