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female
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41-50,
*lmas
writes:me and my husband we are not together right now, am waiting the visa, usa, he went back to his country. we only talk in phone and msn and his ex wife there and she get divorce from her husband who in first place cheated my husband and left him for that and i have strong feeling from how he act. if she want him back he will go runing for her and forget me and what i did to make him happy behind him , he say he love me and am the best thing happen in his life but words neve was enough if there is no action. he said i came 2 time from usa and spend alot money to be with but the 2 time he came he left behind him big miss in my feelings. 2 time he came he was talking about his ex wife and x gf. i lost my control and get mad at him and shouted at him in the street and i said enough is enough. he said he did everything for me and i dont see it and i say all i need look what is coming out from ur mouth its all hurt. we married. i didnt ask big wedding. i didnt wear white dress. i accept everything he said cause he said am not rich. i said u are rich in what u have and what u have, it enough for me am simple person. all i asked him dont hurt me and he promised but he always do ....last time he said promise u will stay with me for ever and love me. i said i promise and when i asked him promise me back, he said i cant cause maybe ur life is short is that mean i will not marry again. i get mad really mad cause that was sooo mean. i said if u wish to marry someone out there and am stand betweeen u can go but dont look back at me cause i dont want someone dont want me back and he said why am making this big deal cause there is nothing happen we are just talking. he like to do what his ex wife liked to do for him yesterday he came from fishing trip in virginia beach cause his xwife gave him before as a gift in father day a he like it i dont have prob he like that. i asked him when u go there call me and tell me u ok , he ignored and didnt call me i worried and called him. he didnt answer me. when he come back he called me like nothing happen and nothing wrong. i was soo cold and said i cant talk right now i have work to do i didnt forget father day. i sent flowers from my place to his office and he said he like it and everyone said u are wife cute and nice. but he dont see that its really hard and i dont know what to do. he say am always mad but he neve ask me why
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reader, Logicgirl  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 I say, he is not the right man for you. He is with you but he keeps on remebering the past, his ex wife and yeah. With a person like him, you can't be happy. He breaks you heart, hurts your feelings, is being mean to you and ignores you. IGNORES YOU. Ignores your love for him. UN-FOR-GIV-ABLE. You just cant forgive a person like him. If he really likes the past and his ex-wifes doing then leave him. Leave him without hesitating. I am sorry but you really made a big mistake by marrying him. You may be loving him but he will keep on hurting you and plus you will keep on hurting yourself, torturing yourself over a useless man. I wish you happines and I hope you will get this happines in a very short time.
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