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writes:Would you be upset if your boyfreinds ex gf texted him? It doesnt matter how much, it could be the 1st time she texted him or the 10th would you be upset? Also how do you not get jelous easy? Cause im a very jelous person but i try not to show it to much.
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (7 July 2010):
 I think you need to elaborate more of your story. What did she say? Did he text back? Just like CaringGuy said, it'd be nice for her to not text but you cant control that. If she's saying inappropriate things to your boyfriend such as 'Come and meet me' or sharing her feelings, then you need to question it with your boyfriend (and her if possible). If it was a text just saying 'Hey, How are things?' Then she may just be friendly.
My boyfriends ex girlfriend is still madly in love with my boyfriend eventhough they've been apart for 2 years. She use to call every weekend when she was drunk and wanted to declare her love for him and when he ignored her, she threatened to knock his front door. (She never did). In the end he had to block her number, moving house wasnt the easiest of options but after a while she took the hint and stopped harrasing us. The point is, if you and your boyfriend are solid and comfortable and your boyfriend is showing no means of contacting her or replying to 'feelings' then you shouldnt have a worry.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 July 2010):
Depends whether he texts back. Depends what she puts in the text. Whilst it would be nice if she didn't text, there really isn't a thing you can do from stopping it. Your jealously is probably an indication that you're very insecure. So I'd suggest that you look carefully at your own life and really work out why you're insecure. Have you been hurt before? Have you felt neglected or deserted? Look at your life and work out why it is that you feel this way.
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