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*edupmommyoftwo
writes:My husband is always gone day and night, he doesn't come back home until late or sometimes he won't come at all, when he wants sex i refuse because he is always so secretive and never shares with me what he has done. When i try to communicate with him he rejects me then gets mad when i don't say anything to him at all he says your too nosy and all you do is ask questions. when i get fed up i shut down and he calls me a miserable B, when i tell him that he is the cause he shuts it out and says oh well and that he doesn't care.Why does he do this? I am his wife and he treats me as if i were any other girl in the street, he has no respect but yet he says he loves me. he goes to his friends and tells lies and make them believe that i am the miserable one that always stresses him out when he is always the cause, he gets mad at every thing i cook, I clean and i take care of our two little children, he never does anything, he won't even wash the dishes, if i ask him to he says if i got to wash the dishes then what i need you for. Is this a real marriage. Reply to this Question
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reader, raybork  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 You are in a hopeless situation,and I feel for you.
Could you send in an update, as I am writing this comment 4 months later.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (8 July 2010):
Hey Honey
Thank you for getting back to us.
This man is very ungrateful, he is showing you no respect and emotionally blackmailing you to stay.
Is this sad fustrating situation all you want in life? If you want better for your children and yourself then leave him ASAP.
Don't tell him where you are going, just go and start again. You will be suprised how a good man would love a loyal lady like you, to build a great future together.
Stop feeling depressed and start finding a way out.
You deserve a whole load more then this.
Good luck x
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reader, fedupmommyoftwo +, writes (8 July 2010):
fedupmommyoftwo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he is not working we have been together for 7 years now I was only 15 when we first started dating he was 17 we were young we went through a lot of up's and down's he cheated on me several times I was to young to understand anything I was blinding my self to his bull taking what ever he had to offer crying every night in hopes that he would change his ways I was completely done with him in 2007 until he gotten incarcerated and said that he needed me our daughter was only 1 years old at the time i was totally for him the whole time money, packages, food visits an 8 hour drive away to the prison he swore to me that he change and in every letter he wrote he apologized for it all and swore never to treat me so again I was fooled when he was released in 2009 we married 2 week later and that's when the maltreatment started up again I was pregnant with his son in Aug he blames me for everything and i can't understand why because I do nothing but try to show this man all my love and affection but yet he says I don't do anything this hurts me deeply to know that he feels that way it's gotten to the point where I have nothing in my heart for him I just deal because 1 he wont leave and when i lock him out he threatens me and uses our kids as an excuse I don't know what to do anymore I am at the end of the rope .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 July 2010):
Yes, it's a sham. He's up to something, whether it's cheating or what I don't know. All I know is that he reeks of guilt. Maybe it's time to decide whether you want to be someone more important to another guy.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (7 July 2010):
Hi,
Do you know if you husband is working or socialising when he is out all the time?
You have children together so I assume you have been living like this for sometime.
When did things change between you?
Get back to us when you can
Good luck x
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