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writes:So theres this guy ive been in love with for almost 3 years. We've never been officially together, but for 2 of those years weve been having sex. So it was like were were together but not, even tho I knew he liked me too it just never happened. When it came to the 3rd year he started being very mean to me and very disrespectful, calling me names and making fun of me. I dont know if age makes a difference by he is 19 years old. So anyway, I moved very far for about 7 months and then after 7 months i ended up moving back. I saw him for the first time within that long period of time and things were very different. He was like a completely different person with the way he treated me. It was like how it was was when we first started talking. He was so sweet and nice to me and he actually put forth effort into having a converstation with me and getting to know what ive been doing for the last 7 months. We had a great time, and no we didnt have sex. He didnt even try anything at all, like he remained like at least 2 feet away from me the entire. So it was just more on like a friend level. So basically I was so happy because i felt like he had finally came around. That was 5 days ago. He hasnt talked to me at all, he completely disappeared. I even texted him last night and he hasnt even responded to me. I just want to know what is going? why is he blowing me off, but before we hung out he was calling and texting me everyday to come hang out?anyone have an idea?
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reader, Virgin2931 +, writes (7 July 2010):
Men are conundrums. Who knows what he was thinking when he turned into a jerk before you moved, but don't forget that he did. Just hang around and don't put too much pressure on him. Make him come to you, not the other way around. And don't settle for less than you want. You deserve a good relationship and if he just wants to get laid again, then forget him. But if he's not texting you back, then forget him. He's totally not worth it.
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