A
male
age
30-35,
*rendan
writes:Guys I think here Im more an agony aunt than a dude seeking advice but I might as well ask how should i deal with this chick.I started talking to this girl and she started getting hell into me. Eventually I invited her to a party so we could get together. I also invited some other people. My greatest mistake in that being inviting a friend, or what is really a complete player, and that night she bailed me and spent the night with him! Although i was a fool for not thinking about that.She claims to have a boyfriend who she doesnt love, and claimed to be into me, until bailing on me.Wats more funny is she sent countless messages first casually asking how my night was, then when i gave a short answer started asking me why im ignoring her, then sent a long one apologizing, saying it was the alcohol. I didnt say anything till i went on yahoochat and she began asking me why im ignoring her. Like wtf? It looks like she wants me for backup in case her other shit doesnt work out..What the f**k is with that? I was a fool for not seeing it but oh well.Perhaps any ideas for retribution? ^^
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I wouldn't bother with this girl anymore if she behaves like that.
And even if you did get together then she slept with your mate and cheated on her boyfriend!
I would simply ignore this girl, she sounds like an attention seeker so ignoring her will probably drive her out of her mind even more and she will probably end up throwing herself at you. if she does then take the advantage of the one night stand and then dont bother with her again as she obviously doesn't care how you might have felt when she went off with your friend.
I would never normally say use a girl for a one night stand but on this occassion she seems to be selfish so why cant you be.
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