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writes: My husband and I have been married for 7 months. We fight because he's done stuff to make me not trust him. today we got into a fight and I threw his phone into our wall out of frustration (not at him). when it came apart he kicked me and told me to get the fuck out of his house. I have a bruise on my leg and a jammed and bruised finger. I didnt call the police and didnt leave cuz I have no place to go and no money. He didnt show much remorse over it. He only apologized when I told him he needs to. Even then he said he did it cuz I broke his phone, which isnt broken. I feel hurt and worried he would do it again. I dont know what to do or think or where to go if I did leave. I am in KS and my family is in FL
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 July 2010):
After reading your other response, I'm even more certain you need to leave him. He's been texting other women, he's kicked you. And you have kids as well. They won't exactly be thrilled when they see you being hit again. I would urge you to leave before this gets worse.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (7 July 2010):
 yes u should leave him he has pysically hurt u and what is sroppin him from doin it again get away from him go to your family and end it now next time it could be your face get out of there and find ur self some one who deserves u
hope every thing works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Yes i want it to continue. I have my kids here and switched jobs about a month ago. the hours at that job weren't working out so I called my old boss. she has to do a rehire process & i am waiting. that's why i am not working right now. I threw his phone because thats what we were fighting over. Him texting his ex gf who we have talked about him not texting or talking to anymore because she is very flirty with him. I caught her sitting on his lap very intimate like. like the way i do. he says im being jealous but mind u he has texted naked pics of himself to other females & had secret email, myspace & adult website accounts. I still stuck by him thru it all & want to trust him but I cant get him to realize it takes him working on building up the trust too
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 July 2010):
Yes, he will do it again, and you should just go back to your family and get away from him. Next time it might well be your head. Throwing a phone against the wall doesn't warrant being kicked, especially when it's clear that you have reasons not to trust him. I think you should just bit the bullet and get away from him now.
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