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female
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30-35,
*uzu
writes:Hello.I need some advice on how to go about this problem.I'm female, and need some advice.My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years now, and we've been physically active with each other for about a year. Up until a few months ago we would switch around regularly with touching each other and taking control of the "situation" in bed, but about two months ago we had a discussion about how comfortable we are with certain things and it turns out she isn't comfortable in an aggressive position. Since then, she's only touched me three times, and two of those times were only because I mentioned something like "I can't wait for my turn" and such. The last time she touched me she didn't seem amused or content or any emotion at all, other than slightly annoyed or looking as if she just /had to/ touch me.I have a big problem with asking her to do things for me, because she has a serious issue with doing things for other people, and she always feels the need to say yes- no matter what it is. So I hate asking her for things, knowing that she'll say yes no matter what her real answer would be in her head.So my problem here is-- How should I go about this situation?Please help. I'm dying inside. Reply to this Question
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