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writes: hi all. i got married with my husband nearly 4 years ago. i knew him 1 year before. we got married and he left me and went to uk for work purpose. we did the wedding ceremony when he came back after a year and we started living together at his mom's place. his mom would always interfere in our life and he did know that but never did anything about tha. after six onths we moved to australia. then the mom accused me for taking his son away from him and she had alwasy hated me. she says that i am ugly and always used to tell me that his son would have got better beautiful brides. my husband and mother in law get into contact by phone and she always suscced to create problems between me, my husband and also my mum and dad. my husband loved my family a lot and she lied a lot and made him hate me and my family. we dont communicate lot, maybe less that 5 minutes a day. we fight a lot. he also beats me up. he listens to his mother too much. the mother lies too much. sometime i want to move away from this wedding but i love him too much to do that and i cant do it because of my six months old baby.plz help me, dont know wat to dothx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): never caste your feelings towards MIL to your husband. That logic i never understand. if you do not like your MIL, ( i know you are far away from her so obviously she is doing nothing to you. ).
so just live your life and enjoy. your husband will always be her son and that you should always respect. these things you will know more when you have son of 10 years. Actually you will feel just like your MIL after you have your DIL. this story is continuing from generations and there is no solution to this problem of women.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 July 2010):
Leave him. Period. He comes from a seriously deranged family by the sound of it. His mother is abusive, and now he is. If he was treated badly by his mother, he will continue to beat you, and worse still may take to beating your child as well. You might love him, but is your love for him worth more than your life, or the life of your baby? Because when it comes down to it, if social services think your child is in danger, you'll lose it. They'll just do it. All the love in the world does not make him hitting you and abusing you right. You need to get away from him NOW, before you either end up dead, or end up alone in a corner of the house. this man will not change. His mother will not change. There is no change here, and the more you stay , the more you damage your own life and the more likely it is your baby will grow up to be either abused, or an abuser. Get away NOW. There is no love here. Just desperation and abuse.
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