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female
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anonymous
writes:ok, here it goes.I'm in love with a close friend of mine, let's call him joe. well joe and I are kind of close, so me being in love with him is a problem I do not want to have anymore.Seriously, I want to forget about him, but I don't know ho to do it if I see him every day at school.I'm 100% sure that nothing good can come if we are together, cos it has happened to me before, and I wont risk our friendship by dating, because if we break up, it won't ever be the same.I don't want to keep trying to get joe any more, I'm just tired, it is not healthy and totally painful.So please, please, please. I need ideas, tips, tricks whatever you wanna call it. But I need to forget him and I need to do it NOW! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): I've been in this situation before.
Ok, at first i didnt think i could ever forget about this lad, it was so hard because i was so in love with him, but it was my friends that helped, i started going out with them more, to town, out for meals, parties, stuff like that and that took my mind of this lad.
When i'd be out with my friends they would all flirt with guys, and i was the odd one, because i was so in love with this lad, it didnt feel right flirting with other lads, but my friends made me realise this lad probably doesnt feel the same way about me, so i started to gain more confidence around other boys flirting, talking, etc.
I hope this helps a little bit :-) xx
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