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writes:I really really like this old friend of mine. i reccently broke up with my boyfriend so i would be able to go out with my friend. but last night he started talking to me about how he just dumped his girlfriend for another girl, not me. and he is doing nothing but talking about how he loves her and how she is leaving town soon and how he is going with her no matter what. he is still in school and if he leaves, his future (which is looking promising for him)is going to fall apart. and i care about him so much, i want nothing but good for him. and i have been trying to talk him out of it, but he has made up his mind. its all really upsetting for me. im one of thise girls that eat their feelings too. i stayed up all night with ice cream and this morning guess what i ate for breakfast? 10 brownies. i cant do anything but think about him and her and how her bad decision is about to bring him down too. what do i do? can somebody please please please help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Don't balme eating brownies on your emotions. Please stop before you look like the back of a van. Anyways, what's hurting you isn't you worrying about his future, it's the fact that you're jealous and hurt he has picked another girl. Unfortunately there's no quick cure for this, nopt even way too many brownies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): you can't tell someone what to do they are always going to do what they want!!! we all make mistakes and learn from them. you cant really do much you just have to let him be! it hard to see someone you care about go the wrong path but as his friend you need to let go and support him. he says he is in love we become dumb and blind when your in love so trust me no matter what you tell him its going to go in ear and out the other.so just step back support him be his friend thats all you can do
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