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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I am losing it. There's a girl who is a good friend of mine that I really like. I enjoy hanging out with her, and I can't stop thinking about her when I'm not. She's seems to be in my head all the time, and it's all really been affecting my focus and my class assignments. When I'm with her, I can't really get anything done; and when I'm not, I can't focus. I seriously have been slipping this semester, but I just can't get her out of my mind.Any advice on ways to get and stay focused? Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Is she single? Make a move! Ask her out, and whether it works out or goes down in flames, pat yourself on the back for having the guts to move forward.
Otherwise, hang out more with your guy friends and your family. Focus on a hobby, or on school. Meet other girls. This one is no more special than any other, the infatuation is either A) she's the only girl you hang out with, making her seem more special than she is, or B) she's "forbidden fruit", making her seem more special than she is.
The girls we feel like we can't risk asking out always seem like the best.
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