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writes:my husband and i are separated for about three weeks now. he says he wants me to move back in and that im the love of his life. but he doesnt know i know he has been sending messages to multiple girls. like hes trying to hook up with them. i dont understand how he wants to get back together. it is confusing me. like one time i went over he said something like i wish you were pregnant that would be awesome you would move rite back in. and just stuff like that. he says he misses me and that it feels like i belong at his house. then last time i went over he said just let me know when you want to get back together.ok..do you? i was like i will take your words into consideration...awkward..i didnt kno what to say. he just says all these things to a bunch of girls and i feel like i dont even kno him. is he just a player,am i just getting played? wat to doalso weve been together for 7 yrs. im almost 20 and hes 21. the reason i moved out is because of the girls he was secretly talking to when i first found i confronted him and his excuse was we were separating..but now that im out he doesnt know i still read his email/facebook messages. i kno theyre not my accounts but i feel i deserve to know so to handle this. you wouldnt believe the things he says to these girls! help!!!
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (7 July 2010):
Hey hun,
The inappropiate messages were my 1st warning sign, whenever I confronted my Ex he always said they were jokes, or done out of boredom.
But now with hindsight I should of realise they showed he's utter lack of respect for me and our marriage.
Also he was constantly cheating at the time, but I could never find enough evidence. If I had taken the messages as the HUGE warning they were, I would have left my Ex husband without as much stress as I have now.
He wants you to have a baby so you are tied together forever, because when you are busy with the baby he will be able to get away with loads more.
You are obviously not happy otherwise you would not be seperated! Don't keep on going back to this crappy situation. Believe me if he ever found you messaging guys the way he does he would leave you!
Take the hint he is not serious about being married.
Good luck x
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