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writes: How do I let go of anger and resentment of being mistreated?My ex recently came back into my life. Through the breakup, I really thought about my part in the relationship and tried to change myself for a better person. It seemed like he did too, but within a few weeks, I realized that he's gotten worse, not better, as a person. I just feel so hurt and said and upset because I treated him with such respect and tried to take his feelings into account as much as possible. Whenever I had hurt his feelings, even if unintentionally, I always apologized. He hurt my feelings, and he could careless. I just have a hard time understanding how people could care so little about those they spent so much (good) time with. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (7 July 2010):
Listen stop stewing and keep walking.
If everyone was considerate in this world it would be a different place. Loads of people are just out to get what they want from people and that's it.
You seem to have a good head on your shoulders stop thinking about your selfish Ex and start remembering what you want in a real man. The world is your oyster, so you kissed a frog now go and get your prince!
Good luck x
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