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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay.... well my boyfriend went down on me twice in one day and then he wanted me to give him head but my parents were around so i couldn't i mean i want to and i've done it loads before but i hate even the thought of cum... i guess i never cared about offending guys when i dry reach but i really love my boyfriend but i cant even have it in my mouth, i even gag when i brush my teeth thats how sensitive my gag reflex is... but if i pull out early then he wont enjoy himself as much and i know he prefers head to hand jobs... what do i do just grin and bear it or are there any tips on other ways for him to enjoy himself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Some people just don't like giving blowjobs. Its nothing to be offended by.
Though, it is fairer if you don't allow someone to give you head if you have no intentions of returning the favour.
Its common knowledge that no one like coffee at first, but they still drink it... even if they have douse it with sugar and chocolate and milk to disguise it.
Perhaps blowjobs are something similar?
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reader, Blue Sahara  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 Well you don't have to put his whole penis in your mouth. Even girls who have strong gag reflexes can give blow jobs cause you are really supposed to mix a blowjob with a hand job.
Cause most people can't move their mouth fast enough, so you hold part of his penis with your hand and stroke it with your hand. It allows you to move your hand faster and faster the more excited he gets.
Then you can put just the head of his penis in your mouth and do whatever he licks (lick, suck, kiss).
And about his cum, you don't have to swallow or even let it be in your mouth. You ask him to let you know when he is going to cum and then you can have him cum on a part of your body that he thinks is sexy or even into a tissue.
Also, just in general, you should never do anything sexually that you don't feel comfortable doing. Even if you think the other person wants it because all it does is build resentment. It can be frustrating to feel like you are doing something that you hate and sex should be about enjoying the other person and their body. And them enjoying yours. It's always better to find a happy in between for what he wants and what you feel comfortable doing.
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