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writes:Hi, my naame is Alexandra. im 15 yrs old. and i think im pregnantive been pregnant before.but i lost the baby one month intothe pregnancy. But now since im pregnant again..i just dont know what to do. im goingg to thee gynocologist in 2 weeks to ask fora test. But the hardest part is how im going to tell my parents. I know how my mom would react but i dont knowhow my dad will react. My boyfriend and his family and all my friends are supportive and want me to keep the baby. and i want to keep it aswell. but i dont think my parents or my family would want me to. im just so scared and need advice. i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): Everything will be ok. Just tell your parents they love you ! You are there daughter!! I believe everything happens for a reason. Have the baby . It didnt do anything wrong. then its up to if you can take care of it. So many people that want to have a baby cant. Its such a blessing to be able to carry a child inside you!! God Bless!! Please start using birth control! So hard having a baby in perfect family!! You being so young it will be hard. I say this for Im 30 and just had my first child 3 months ago!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): If you are pregnant for the second time at 15yo then you are trying to get pregnant on purpose.
Why?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 July 2010):
 Did you take a pregnancy test from the store?
I think part of doing mature, grown up things like sex, is being grown up and mature enough to tell your parents. Tell them that you have something important to tell them, and then sit them down and tell them. They may be angry and upset, but they love you, you are their daughter. So it's time to be brave and be a grown up. Good luck!
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reader, VictoriaK +, writes (7 July 2010):
 First, take a deep breath. Realize the magnitude of having a baby at 15. Many young mothers have done very well with a baby, however many haven't as well. You have to think what is going to be best for you. If you think that your bf, and his family are going to help you and the baby, and you really want this, then you can do it.
But think about this for a moment, depending how old your boyfriend is and the laws where you live he could be charged for criminal sexual conduct, because you're under age. You have to talk to your family about this.
I wish you nothing but the best, and hope you make a decision that makes YOU happy, the only people you need to think about right now are you and the baby. Please keep us updated, and realize that you have many options.
*Much love and luck*
Victoria K
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