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writes:Hi, I wonder if someone could help me I don't know what happened/ is happening with this guy, could someone please help?Until saturday he was just a friend,we talked everyday but we hadn't met up since the day we met two months prior at a party. My parents were away. Some people are scared of spiders...I'm scared of being alone overnight, so he came round and we kissed and spent the whole night cuddling (don't worry he was the perfect gentleman, we didn't go further than kissing).Then on monday he took me on a date , seemed kind of not there, but i was so tired i was in such a spacey mood too, I wasn't sure if he was nervous because we were in public or whatever but something felt a bit wrong and I was a bit overwhelmed myself seeing him three days in a row so I thought he must need space. I've never not had a guy contact me within 24 hours though, I found it hell waiting, but finally he texted me yesterday and seemed to be mad at me for not contacting me, he usually replies to me within 10 mins, he took hours and didn't reply to my last text. (I'm not sure if he didn't get it as my phone does mess up a lot and i sometimes don't get other peoples texts either or if he was mad because I said I was glad he texted me in the previous text and he asked me why I was glad, and I told him to guess) So I said hi on msn, and after he didn't reply (and i saw he was there doing stuff on facebook) I asked if he was there...he completely blanked me. It was so embarrasing and horrible...I cried myself to sleep. I miss him so much, so used to talking to him everday albeit as a friend, how do I fix this??? I don't even half understand what I need to fix I could only guess why he was mad since we haven't talked, someone please help me understand? I really like him! x
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reader, LisaSE  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 If he uses facebook, why not try writing him a real note? Proper english, fully structured, the whole shebang! I think you need to let him know that you were a little out of it on date night because you were so tired and, maybe that's the reason, but you sensed something was off too. Tell him how you feel... HONESTLY! O_O Also, it might not hurt to call the letter something like "I'll send one a day (or per hour!) until you answer" to lessen the chance of him deleting it! ;D Seriously, just tell him you need to talk face to face, be well rested beforehand :P, and have a serious open discussion about what you BOTH want...
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