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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I hav ebeen with my boyfriend for three years, i recently got obssessive over him when i found out he had second thought of being with me because he felt he doesnt know bc of my behavior. (me being overly loving)...he told me after 2 months of apparently "giving me a chance" that its over but he still call sand tells me he loves me. so out of being emotional i ask him am i your girl? and he says NO this is not goign to work. on the 15th of every month we kinda wished one another happy anniversary. i have been going to see him often bc he used to live across the country before, i am 24 and lost my virginity to him as well recently...so i thought going to see him would make him see how much we can work not only through havign a long distance relationship but in person as well. anyhow... i wanted to stop talking to him after the 15th to see if he even wishes me happy anniversary, bc i thought if i stopped picking up his calls and stuff he can tell me WELL i was going to try to patch stuff up or say something like this is very typical of u to run away. i wanted to just cut him off after the 15th but now my wrry is that if i do that what if he feels OKAY she is over me...and stops calling? we have alot of memories together i am sure he wotn find another girl like me but if he moves on it will kill me and right now i cant even think about not being with him!
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